JOHN WILLIAMS’ PERSONAL BLOG ON CREATIVE LIVING
It might seem strange to bring death into a blog about doing what you love but in fact it is at the very heart of the topic.
When I was a 5 month old baby, my parents took my brother and I out in the family car to visit some relatives. Just a few minutes from our home, we were hit head-on by a young drunk driver who had lost control and was on the wrong side of the road.
Both my parents were injured. My father died in hospital 10 days later from complications with his injuries. It was 43 years ago today. He had just turned 34.
Losing my father before I was even old enough to know him has coloured my whole life. It made it abundantly and painfully clear that life can end at any moment.
With this stark reality in mind, now answer this question: Do you really want to spend another few years doing some crappy work in the hope that you can do what you really like later?
Here’s the real message of this blog and my work in general (and it’s as much a reminder to me as to you):
STOP PISSING YOUR LIFE AWAY
What do you really want your life to be about? Start it right now in some small way. If you don’t know what you want, your mission is to find out. It’s less important that you complete your work mission than that you’re engaged in it. It’s in the being in play that you will find salvation.
When you are fully engaged in the right project, you will easily attract others around you who are inspired by the same aims. And if the worst happens and you don’t get to complete your work yourself, others will pick up the reigns.
Do what really matters. Start small. Start right now.
This is the personal blog of John Williams, author of "Screw work, let's play: How to do what you love & get paid for it" to be published by Pearson in June 2010.
Join my mission to play all day and get paid - to do whatever creative, fun stuff we feel like doing and make a good living out of it.
Chris Wild
April 20th, 2009 at 8:25 PM
This is a great post, and very shocking to read. I am really sorry that this is the case, John.
You are so obviously doing the right thing for you.
Candy Newman
April 21st, 2009 at 10:10 AM
Very moving, and a great reminder of how precious life is. I’m going out into the sunshine to look at blossom NOW!.
Matt Payne
April 21st, 2009 at 6:31 PM
Thanks for inspiring us once again John. It’s good to be reminded of these stark realities. Reminds me of a quote I once heard:
“You don’t get to choose how you’re going to die, or when. You can only decide how you’re going to live. Now!” Joan Baez.
Emma Laris
May 22nd, 2009 at 4:04 PM
This is a very moving story. The sad thing is that it is true. I feel more motivated that I have to make a change and do what I realy enjoy in life. There is a saying that I think is true in life, time is like a sword, if you don’t cut it (as in make the best of it) it will cut you (as in it will be wasted).
All the best. I think this is true in what your advice is.